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Do not seek the because - in love there is no because, no reason, no explanation, no solutions.

Henry and June: From A Journal of Love - The Unexpurgated Diary of Ana�s Nin (1931-1932)
Anxiety is love's greatest killer. It makes others feel as you might when a drowning man holds on to you. You want to save him, but you know he will strangle you with his panic.
How wrong is it for a woman to expect the man to build the world she wants, rather than to create it herself?
I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me na�ve or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.
Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings.
Love, by its very nature, is unworldly, and it is for this reason rather than its rarity that it is not only apolitical but antipolitical, perhaps the most powerful of all antipolitical forces.

The Human Condition
The common prejudice that love is as common as "romance" may be due to the fact that we all learned about it first through poetry. But the poets fool us; they are the only ones to whom love is not only a crucial, but an indispensable experience, which entitles them to mistake it for a universal one.

The Human Condition
When two people part, it is the one who is not in love who makes the tender speeches.

How Proust Can Change Your Life
Once we are involved in a relationship, there is no longer any such thing as a minor detail.

How to Think More About Sex
Though debts are condemned in the financial world, the world of friendship and love may perversely depend on well-managed debts.

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