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Love is the opposite of lust: respecting the other as an end unto himself or herself. When you love someone as an end unto himself, then there is no feeling of hurt; you become enriched through it. Love makes everybody rich.

Being in Love: How to Love with Awareness and Relate Without Fear
Love is the goal, life is the journey.

Intimacy: Trusting Oneself and the Other
I did not want to voice a word that would lift the cover and reveal that hideous emotion I always felt for her, the underside of love.

Goodbye, Columbus and Five Short Stories
The pleasure isn't in owning the person. The pleasure is this. Having another contender in the room with you.

The Human Stain
Because that is when you love somebody - when you see them being game in the face of the worst. Not courageous. Not heroic. Just game.

The Human Stain
The only obsession everyone wants: love. People think that in falling in love they make themselves whole? The Platonic union of souls? I think otherwise. I think you're whole before you begin. And the love fractures you. You're whole, and then you're cracked open.

The Dying Animal
But when I want to draw close to someone, and fully commit myself, then my misery is assured. Then I am nothing, and what can I do with nothingness?

Letters to Felice‎
Nothing unites two people so completely, especially if, like you and me, all they have is words.

Letters to Felice‎
I'm thinking only of my illness and my health, though both, the first as well as the second, are you.

Letters to Milena
Should I be grateful or should I curse the fact that despite all misfortune I can still feel love, an unearthly love but still for earthly objects.

Diaries
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