Alain de Botton

Switzerland
Born on 20 Dec 1969
Writer / Philosopher

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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad, and to lonely service stations that we should drive when there is no one for us to hold or love.

The Art of Travel
The more familiar two people become, the more the language they speak together departs from that of the ordinary, dictionary-defined discourse. Familiarity creates a new language, an in-house language of intimacy that carries reference to the story the two lovers are weaving together and that cannot be readily understood by others.

On Love
Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.

On Love
The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.

The Art of Travel
Must being in love always mean being in pain?

On Love
Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.

A Week at the Airport: A Heathrow Diary
Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.

On Love
What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.

The Architecture of Happiness
It is in books, poems, paintings which often give us the confidence to take seriously feelings in ourselves that we might otherwise never have thought to acknowledge.

The Architecture of Happiness
We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.

On Love
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