Alain de Botton

Switzerland
Born on 20 Dec 1969
Writer / Philosopher

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The more people we take to be our equals and compare ourselves to, the more people there will be to envy.

Status Anxiety
To make it into a discipline is to give too large a role to what is only an incitement. Reading is on the threshold of the spiritual life; it can introduce us to it: it does not constitute it.

How Proust Can Change Your Life
See how small your are next to the mountains. Accept what is bigger that you and what you do not understand. The world may appear illogical to you, but it does not follow that it is illogical per se. Our life is not the measure of all things: consider sublime places a reminder of human insignificance and frailty.

The Art of Travel
Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.

The Art of Travel
It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value.

The Architecture of Happiness
We are not always humiliated by failing at things; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement, and then do not reach it.

Status Anxiety
Beauty, then, is a fragment of the divine, and the sight of it saddens us by evoking our sense of loss and our yearning for the life denied us.

The Architecture of Happiness
There is a danger of developing a blanket distaste for modern life which could have its attractions but lack the all-important images to help us identify them.

How Proust Can Change Your Life
Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn't know rejection and humiliation so intimately.

How to Think More About Sex
Once we are involved in a relationship, there is no longer any such thing as a minor detail.

How to Think More About Sex
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